I’d confront her and expose what she’s been doing. That’s extremely toxic and the fact that she has been not only doing things with your boyfriend but has been lying to your loved ones sounds very manipulative. Patience and loving sadly doesn’t counteract manipulation, I’ve certainly tried my best to do so.
Top tip: Tell her to fuck off, and have a conversation with your boyfriend. If you know the lies she’s told and who she’s told ‘em to, I’d recommend you talk with those people and share your truth (it typically doesn’t help to throw the other person, your sister in this case, under the bus while doing this – save that fun for another time!).
Here’s some spells and magic to help with good communication:
By putting certain things underneath your pillow, you will allow those metaphysical properties to interact with your dreams, and your person all throughout the night, when you sleep upon that pillow. Here is a small list of constructs you can put underneath your pillow, that will provide to you certain energies, minds states, and physical stimulus throughout the night based on what they are:
Lapis lazuli under your pillow for awareness of your dreams, and vividness of those dreams.
Clear quartz under your pillow to wake up with more energy, after you awake from your sleep.
Bayleaf under your pillow in order to have more prophetic dreams.
Chamomile under your pillow in order to promote relaxation, and good dreams.
Rose petals under your pillow in order to bring love into your waking life.
Peppermint under your pillow in order to promote relaxation, and vivid dreams.
Lavender under your pillow in order to promote calm, and in order for you to sleep well.
Anise under your pillow in order to prevent nightmares.
Rosemary under your pillow in order to prevent nightmares, and to bring deep sleep.
Garlic under your pillow in order to promote sleep well.
You can put a blade of grass, or a leaf underneath your pillow to promote growth, and change in your waking life.
Money under your pillow for wealth, and prosperity in your waking life.
You can put a picture of someone underneath your pillow in order to connect with them better.
You can put the name of someone underneath your pillow in order to connect with them better.
You can put all manner of sigil underneath your pillow in order to get the effect of that Sigil into your dreams, and waking life.
Inspired by the douchebag who saw fit to put a neo-Nazi (oh sorry, “alt-right” -eyeroll-) propaganda flier under my wiper at the market today.
May the hateful hands that forged this Have their own hatred turned back to bite them May their own teeth bite their slanderous tongues May their own bile choke them
May their own spite confound them
May the harm they do be visited upon them a hundred times And a hundred times again Until enlightenment finds them Or death takes them
Tear the flier into pieces, dispose of it in a public waste receptacle, and spit after it.
What sort of original posts would y’all like to see from me in the future? And what do you feel like is a gaping (or small) hole in the community information/post wise? Especially related to chronic illness but it could be anything!
I make no promises but I’m curious! I’m good at making masterposts but anyone with enough patience can do that – what do you want to hear about from me?
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