clearingsky:

mothsfuzz:

THINGS TO ROMANTICIZE

– going 2 bed on time

– healthy romantic relationships

– eating without worrying about calories

– living alone

– non-traditional career paths

– loving yourself

– being old and happy

feel free to add on!!

– being happy with yourself

-not pushing yourself past your limits

-forgiving yourself

-communicating healthily with yourself and others

Why are you kink shaming? :(

madamehearthwitch:

heatherwitch:

I’m not kink shaming. I’m expressing my dislike with people trying to involve me in their kinks when I haven’t expressed any interest or consent. 

Oh nay nay NAY anon.

Don’t you EVEN come into Mouse’s ask like that.

If you knew ANYTHING about kink at all, you would know that consent is the front and center of it all. And as Mouse has said, they did not give consent.

I love me some kink, and got the same ask. And was disgusted by it. Not because I have any issue with whatever lifestyle the sender wants to live. But because I did not give consent to be involved in their “scene” or “play” or whatever term they prefer to use. Sending asks like that is a huge violation of consent, and gives us kinksters a bad name.

I appreciate you ❤️❤️❤️