Hi, I was the breakup ask! I’m sorry for not doing not research before sending you an ask. That’s something I actually do try to be conscious of /: I think what was driving me to ask you specifically was my wanting to know if you had any tried and true spells in *your* mind as opposed to a web search- but the phrasing didn’t make that super obvious. Also you’re not obligated to fix my or someone elses problems! Ever!! I hope I didnt give that impression either. Again I’m super sorry about that.

It’s totally fine, it’s something that’s been coming up a lot which is why there’s a couple posts about it on my blog – they weren’t targeted at you specifically and I apologize if they came across that way! And apologies for the misunderstanding, the problem with our main communication being writing on here is that sometimes things get misread or lost in our own personal translations. 

The closest thing I have to what you’re asking is this spell:

This spell has been super helpful for me, but a little edit I haven’t made is if you’re flushing paper down the toilet it should be toilet paper, not regular paper! You could also burn the paper. Hope this helps!

Are there any spells for falling out of love with someone…lol? I got dumped 6 months ago and I’ve been trying my hardest to learn from it and improve myself and my behavior and such. Like really trying to respond to the situation healthily (allowing myself to feel sad too, ofc) but I still miss him and love him so much /: it sometimes feels like it’ll never go away.

A lot of stuff shows up if you search “falling out of love spell” using the tumblr search function. Here, I’ll link it for you!

how do you ground yourself after a spell? it’s really interesting to see all the different methods people prefer. im a closet witch so I usually comb my hair and burn the fallout

I enjoy washing my face with water or putting water drops on key points of my face (forehead, cheeks, nose, chin, sometimes eyelids). Then I’ll sit and settle my body down and focus on my breathing and quieting my mind.

How do you all ground after performing magic?

Mouse, thank you so much for doing what you do. This really helps me. I’m currently bedridden right now and this is such a godsend. It’s nice to know I’m not alone- thank you. I absolutely adore your blog and you, and it always makes me happy. I’m so glad you’re in my life, even if we don’t interact.

You’re very welcome! A big part of my goal with having this blog was to make more content for spoonie and chronically ill witches and to help us all feel a little less alone. Health problems can feel so isolating, but there’s such a big community of us! May your days be filled with minimal pain and symptoms, and may you find something new and exciting to keep you occupied and entertained while you’re bed bound ❤