It’s totally fine, it’s something that’s been coming up a lot which is why there’s a couple posts about it on my blog – they weren’t targeted at you specifically and I apologize if they came across that way! And apologies for the misunderstanding, the problem with our main communication being writing on here is that sometimes things get misread or lost in our own personal translations.
The closest thing I have to what you’re asking is this spell:
This spell has been super helpful for me, but a little edit I haven’t made is if you’re flushing paper down the toilet it should be toilet paper, not regular paper! You could also burn the paper. Hope this helps!