Hey mouse I have a question, with job spells is there a way to direct it at someone else? My boyfriend is having a really hard time with money, jobs and pretty much life and I feel like I can’t do anything to help him

Hey hon! You totally can, as long as you have their consent to do so!

All you need is some sort of tag lock (hair, a photo of him, and object that is important to him, etc.) to incorporate into the spell and tie it to him instead of you 🙂

Hi! I just wanted your opinion about witches who say that witchcraft is just an aesthetic and it doesn’t matter if other people use it as such. The exact words were “as a witch myself, yeah, it’s an aesthetic, and it doesn’t hurt or oppress anyone soooo nope” It was on a video that listed witchcraft as an aesthetic that people can try for their social media. Idk, there’s something about the wording that make me uncomfortable. I don’t have any witch friends but I wanted a second opinion.

Okay so here are my thoughts:

  • Witchcraft does tend to have a certain aesthetic: crystals, tarot cards, sigils and runes, darker colors (blacks, dark red and purple, etc.), long pointed nails, flowing clothes or “old-fashioned”/raggedy clothes. Not that everyone fits within the aesthetic nor do they need to in order to be a witch. 
  • I know that there are people out there that really enjoy the look but don’t necessarily want to practice the craft. I personally am okay with them calling it “witchcraft aesthetic” or “witchy aesthetic” because they aren’t wrong, that is a commonly associated aesthetic. 
  • For some of us, the aesthetic is part of how we draw our power. For others, it doesn’t matter. But in order to be a witch you must put some form of energy and intention in – it can’t be purely aesthetic.
  • I think there certainly are worse things to call an aesthetic (like people using the g-slur), but it is a little frustrating when people claim that simply following an aesthetic makes you that thing!

My partner is asleep and I don’t have anyone else I can message about this but I was googling some stuff about chronic pain I’ve been having and I came across Fibromyalgia and read up about it. For the first time in years I feel like everything makes sense now and I want to cry. I know I have to talk to a doctor about this but it makes so much sense. I’ve felt so frustrated with how much pain I’ve been in for “no reason” And was worried I was just a weak unfit person

I’m so happy for you! Knowing that you aren’t alone and starting the process of figuring out wtf is happening to your body is such an amazing feeling ❤️ Best of luck on your journey for a diagnosis!

Hi, idk if the spoonie sigils requests are open but if they are, can you make a sigil which can help with breathing problems and chest pains, please? Have a nice day! :)

Hey thanks so much for your patience this has been sitting in my inbox for a couple of days and I just haven’t had the time! Also spoonie sigils requests are always open!

I already have a sigil for breathing problems: “Breathe easy

Here’s the one I made for chest pains: “Ease my chest pains

Before requesting a sigil, bear in mind:

  • ONLY spoonie sigils are free, the rest are by commission. 
  • I am a spoonie, please respect my energy and time. No more than two sigil requests in an ask, and the more swamped I get the less likely I am to make your sigil in a timely fashion! Don’t let this deter you! 😀

As a secular/atheist witch is it odd for me to wear a faery star??? I just got a gorgeous solid silver faery star at a Ren fair. I feel strongly drawn to the idea of fae and believe there are sort of fae “forces” in the world even if I don’t literally think faeries walk among us. I also relate to stories of Changelings due to similarities of the Changeling mythos to autistic childhood. And I feel that any magic I do is more of a focusing of myself than of actually changing the universe…

TBH I don’t really have much knowledge on faery stars, I’ve never come across them in my practice! Posting because I have some very knowledgeable followers ❤

So sorry if this is a stupid question! I really would like to get into spirit work and I remember you saying something about working with plant spirits and animal spirits. (sorry if I’m wrong!) How do you know if they are a plant or animal spirit? Do you specifically call them and they come? Is it also dangerous to ask any spirit to come and talk? Thank you!💗

Oh no question is a stupid question, my dear!

Please note that my interactions and experiences with these spirits is entirely UPG! Like most of my craft, I learned through common sense and intuition. I’d recommend using your own common sense and intuition and doing additional research (don’t base your methods of spirit work blindly off of me!) ❤

Plant Spirits:

  • I’ve found most individual plants tend to have a spirit. However, sometimes a patch or grove will have one spirit.
  • These spirits tend to have certain characteristics in common (meaning, spirits of a particular plant), but don’t assume that they’ll all be the same and share feelings and personalities. 
  • Personalities can also vary based on what environment the plant and spirit are growing in. A forest spirit, an alpine spirit, an ocean spirit can all be very different, even if they all share the same type of plant. 
  • I usually walk up to a plant/patch and sit with it. I introduce myself (by my witch name), why I want to interact with them, and what I appreciate about the plant. Bringing some sort of offering is also good (I like water).
  • Sometimes I get an immediate response or feeling, sometimes I get a cold-shoulder or a “you’ll need to work on this if you want to interact with me/us” and sometimes I get nothing. 
  • Honestly, I’m not going to touch more on this because it can be different for different people and it is tough when you have a set way of how it should be in your mind.
  • It’s a process! You have to build rapport. But when you do, walking through the forest is so amazing because you are familiar with the plants and spirits.

Animal spirits:

  • My interaction with this spirits is almost always when I have a physical connection to their body/remains. Usually after I find their body and move it to the offering tree in my forest (where nature can find life from death), or find their bones. 
  • These interactions vary greatly. With the ones I bring to the tree, they usually seem attached to me for a couple of days, following me around and giving me a vibe that seems… grateful, for lack of a better word.
  • With the bones, sometimes they’re okay with me handling them (the bones), sometimes they want me to leave the bones where I found them/in a wild place, and sometimes they’re pissed that I even touched them. As long as I respect whatever vibe I get, nothing has happened and sometimes I build a connection with them after time. 
  • Like any relationship/connection, it takes time, respect and openness.

I personally wouldn’t recommend calling any spirit to come visit, but if you’re able to create some sort of tie with a specific species and know what they’re energy is like – I’d say that would be relatively safe. Please set guidelines first!