I will oftentimes ask for clarity or specific ways in which things are communicated to me. Which can be pushing it depending on your personal relationship to that deity, but sometimes it’s hard to ask for a sign and then try to figure out if each thing is a sign or not.
I just try to be completely honest with where I’m at in life and if I’m confused by something, all while being respectful and communicating that while giving some sort of offering 💕