Thank you for your blog, I find so many nice things on it that are helpful for my daily spoony life! BTW do you have anything to learn to respect one’s spoon amount? I tend to “borrow from the next day” until I’m left exhausted and bed-ridden for a day or two…

Hahahaha I’m currently working on respecting my energy levels and reserves, it’s something that has been a challenge for me but I feel I’m making progress:

  • Asking if I *need* to do the thing I’m about to do. If yes, do I need to do it now? Can it wait a bit?
  • Asking if I *want* to do the thing I’m about to do. If yes, have I done the things I need to do? Which one/s am I going to prioritize? 
  • Making a list (mental or written down) off all the things I want to accomplish this week. (Grocery shopping, catching up on dishes, dyeing my hair, etc.) I will then either outline which of those I hope to do each day, or have it to reference based on my energy levels on any given day.
  • If you are at the end of your spoons, do the bare minimum. It’s better than doing nothing at all. 
  • It’s okay to do half of something and return to it later (depending on the task, obviously). I like to save those options for later in the day. Prioritizing is key. 
  • Paying attention to what unexpected things drain me. Sometimes that’s being on my phone, sitting in a certain position, watching a certain type of show, etc.
  • Remember that while you may consider mental and physical things to be separate, they can affect one another. When I’m having a bad mental day, my physical health and energy drops as well. Take time to make yourself happy. I like to watch cartoons/ghibli or cute kitten videos or something. I am ALWAYS amazed that when I have a good mental day, my health suddenly becomes a bit more manageable. 

Oh you did answer, sorry. (I didn’t notice) but do you have suggestions for what crystals because there are a lot of varying descriptions for what each crystal does

I would match up the energy I get from the crystals with the energy I get from the different places. So instead of using correspondences already out there, I would create personal correspondences based on energy/vibes. I’d recommend going to a craft store and finding some crystal beads and playing around with the energy. That would also solve your problem of how to hang them up. 

Okay so I have a world map at my home and I was thinking of putting it on top of a cork board above my bed then pinning sigils to certain places to bring me luck so that one day I could go there or to hang crystals from a pin from some places so that I may visit there in my dreams, I was wondering if you knew any sigils or crystals to suggest? Ones about luck and dreaming? Also would this be a good idea (I know there’s a risk of crystals falling on my head while I sleep)

Wait I totally answered this, I think I just answered it privately. Did you check your inbox? That’s where they go!

I said that it sounded like a great idea and I loved the image of you carrying those crystals with you when you finally got to go on those trips. I think you should pick crystals based on the energy you get from each location. If you secure it right, they shouldn’t fall 🙂

Your kittens are the best thing in this world (apart from you, perhaps ❤️❤️) and I adore them so so much. They are a blessing to my life as much as you are, which is saying a lot. That being said, your blog is obviously always yours to do with as you with, regardless of what I or anyone else thinks. So much love for you and your blog!! Thank you for everything you do!!

Awwww thank you so much, this ask made me smile! 🙂

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I have 4 kittens too right now and I love your kitten posts! Kitten posts are always great, every single kitten post is wonderful!💕🐱😻

Kittens are the best!!!

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I’m loving hearing about the kittens, please post about them as much as you like. 💕🐾

Thank you, I plan to ❤