not exactly a witchy question, but I’ve recently been having some serious problems with my health (past 2 months) and was wondering what experiences you had of being undiagnosed. I know many people have gone undiagnosed a lot longer than this but I’m becoming really frustrated that my health is failing and the most my doctors are doing is shrugging and taking a guess. They finally think they’ve found it and I have medication but I worry it’s still just a guess. any advice or similar experience?

Hi! I went undiagnosed and under-treated for about three years, undiagnosed with decent treatment for a year and a half, and was unofficially diagnosed and properly treated for a year, and have been officially diagnosed and properly treated since May. 

Five and a half years before I tested positive for Lyme Disease (although I’m in the process of getting diagnosed with CIRS as well now). 

I understand your struggles, I really do. So many doctors and specialists, where our appointments ended with a referral to a different specialist, a suggestion to take anti-depressants or anxiety meds, or a haphazardly slapped on diagnosis that was completely lazy. 

  • Research it and see if it feels right, or if they’re missing something. 
  • Consider the fact that some illnesses can mimic others symptom wise.
  • Also consider the fact that some illnesses are often tied to co-infections or other chronic issues. (For example, I have Late Stage Chronic Lyme Disease. But I also have 7 chronic co-infections and likely have CIRS. These all commonly go together)
  • Talk with others who have gotten that diagnosis, whether it was misdiagnosed or not. 
  • See another doctor and get it double checked. Find someone who will test for it. 
  • Find a doctor who will tell you all of the possible things that could be causing your symptoms and is willing to test as many of those paths as they can. 

I didn’t find any real answers or find anyone to run every possible test until I started seeing a Naturopath. There are some great Western Medicine doctors out there, but I wasn’t able to find any of them. They just didn’t have the answers or didn’t seem to care. If you do go the Naturopathic medicine route, I’d recommend finding a ND who understands the value of holistic medicine and of Western Medicine, when it’s needed. 

I wish you the best of luck on your diagnosis journey!

mm is it possible to charm something for two different purposes?

It depends on what the two different purposes are! In general, it’s best to keep enchantments neat and simple, focused on one thing. But some purposes coincide with one another.

Some examples:

  • Relaxation/sleep
  • Relaxation/healing
  • Comfort/calm
  • Energy/motivation
  • Focus/motivation
  • Focus/memory
  • Etc. You can likely see how those things are different but also tie together and work together towards the same purpose.

You can also enchant something with a more specific purpose:

  • Love, with a focus on honest and clear communication
  • Healing, with a focus on emotional happiness/health
  • Truth, with a focus on seeing through those who would deceive/trick you.

It’s best to be clear and focused on what the charm is. It’s harder to do this if the charm is for something like: Love, focus, good memory, health, relaxation. Not only is that a jumble of things, but some of them contradict one another. Hope this makes sense! When in doubt, keep it simple 🙂

I mean, it would be helpful for like, help with cleaning when you have low energy since i can only clean when im borderline manic and literally only on the full moon (weird im aware i always get restless) and on maintaining said clean, my problem is mainly, no only, with clothes, (ik you’re a regular human and might struggle with this too, my suggestion is to get asks and compile them into a mega post of tips! Since i have some, but it would be helpful to get others as well)

Honestly the suggestions you sent me are worthy of their own post and credit to you. I’d recommend writing them in a list, categorizing them if you can, and posting it! 

Suggested format:

(Title Font) Low energy cleaning or Cleaning with low motivation

Brief intro, explaining why these things are helpful for you.

General tips:

  • Tip 1
  • Tip 2
  • Etc.

Specific tips – make as many of these categories as needed (for clothes, for cleaning a specific room/place):

  • Same format as above
  • Etc.
  • Etc.

Here is a place for you to add links to related posts, to add or link any other information, to add a personal ending note, etc. 


Please send me a message if you need support writing the post, or would like me to send you the additional anons you sent to remember. I would also be happy to contribute to your post if you need additional ideas.

And please send me the post if you do write it, which I really hope you do but completely understand that it can take a lot of energy and focus to write a post like that! ❤

Hi! I was wondering if you new of any spells that would help me. As of recently I have a friend who keeps calling me something I am not. It started out as a joke and he has taken it a bit too far. He’s telling other people and people that are close to me. I’ve told him to stop and he will not. Any spells that you think would work is greatly appreaciated.

Honestly in situations like this, I rarely turn to magic. Communication is key.

Tell him that if you can’t respect your boundaries and requests that you don’t want to be around him anymore, and take some space. Either he’ll figure his shit out or he won’t, and do you really want to be around someone who isn’t willing to listen to and understand your needs? I would also suggest talking with the people close to you (that he’s been talking to) and explaining the situation.

Here’s some spells and magic to help with good communication:

To reveal lies/the truth:

Best of luck!