lymeandlove:

lymeandlove:

Thoughts…

It always bothers me when people send their blessings related to my health problems. I know it’s their way of offering support and condolences but it always feels like a cop-out.

Maybe it’s because it’s ALWAYS the people who suddenly ditched me when I started showing symptoms, or didn’t believe me until I got an official diagnosis.

But saying “you’re in my prayers” or “blessings for fast healing” doesn’t make me feel better.

Some things you could say instead:

• “I hope your pain/symptoms become manageable.”
• “I hope the pain/symptoms ease soon.”
• “I know this isn’t easy and I couldn’t begin to understand, but I’m here if you need anything.”
• “If you need support, all you have to do is ask.”
• “If you ever want to talk about it, I’m a listening ear.”
• You could also say: “If you would like me to pray for you or send blessings your way, let me know!” (It takes pressure off of the person you’re trying to support)